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How
can I do to solve the family’s trouble?
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Questions from Audience:
Why
do my family live together but they are responsible only for themselves and
don’t care one another? My 2nd
older brother is aggressive, addicted to alcohol and tobacco. My 3rd older sister is extravagant
and has a lot of debts. It seems my
family is broken. Is there any way to
solve this problem and turn us to become a warm family?
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Answers:
Your
family is broken because they offered alms in the previous lifetime
disrespectfully, have not helped one another for many lifetimes. These caused them to be stubborn, not accepted
one another, have different belief and view and sometimes break the precept.
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Solution:
You
have to play role as their mental glue. You
would cultivate them to have the right belief and view equally by persuading
them to make merit and keep the 5 precepts.
Be patient and always observe and find the way to help them. If they do something wrong, you would
overlook them. Sometimes you would
pretend you don’t see, hear, or know anything.
Don’t mind their bad words and actions. Keep quiet and stay calm. Encourage them with your love and
good–willing. You would do the mentioned ways continuously with your love and
good–willing like the Lord Buddha who is the continuous–perfection
pursuer. These all are depending on you. I bless you to be their best brother
successfully.
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By Khunkru Maiyai
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4th, 2003
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