Partiality Because of Love


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     When we love or feel satisfied by someone, we usually do or give something to that person that they may not deserve. We may not give things to some people that we do not love or unfairly love less. The unloved ones may deserve better. If we love our daughter more than our son, then our daughter may receive mostly compliments and our son receives mostly blames. Sometimes we take sides with our children even when they do something wrong. The long-term effect of that is bad because the children will become spoiled.
When we love or feel satisfied by someone, we usually do give something to that person that they may not deserve. We may not give things to some people that we do not love or unfairly love less. The unloved ones may deserve better. If we love our daughter more than our son, then our daughter may receive mostly compliments and our son receives mostly blames. Sometimes we take sides with our children even when they do something wrong. The long-term effect of that is bad because the children will become spoiled.
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     When we work in the same places as our relatives, close friends, and significant others, we may give them things that they do not deserve. This is a form of corruption beginning from our mind. If most people in society behaved with partiality, it would cause corruption in that society. If we thought of everyone in our organization or society as our relatives, we would then treat each of them equally like family. The partiality due to love would be reduced. When we do not have biases our minds and moods are more focused and stable.
I do believe that everybody has one(s) that he or she can love, fall in love, and truly love. Do you believe that love makes people blind? I think falling in love probably is the strongest cause of complete blindness.
Have you ever felt that when you (fall in ) love with someone, anything or everything that she or he does tends to be right or all right?
Once my mother told me that when a man falls in love with a woman, if the woman passes gases, he still can say that those are good smells. You may feel funny and may think that my mother’s analogy is outrageous. is outrageous. But I think you will agree with her.
Therefore, I agree that love makes people blind. However, the ability to truly love others males us try to understand the ways those people truly are. And pure love makes us unconditionally and unexpectedly give our love, understanding, and everything that we can give to others solely for the sake of goodness.
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