The Easiest Cause of Ruin is Following False Friends

The Easiest Cause of Ruin is Following False Friends

After that I associated with good friends who concentrate on our studies

When I was in high school, there was a semester when I spent time with friends who felt that smoking was fine, skipping classes was fun, going to bars or night clubs was great (we were younger than 18 at that time), and not listening to parents’ advice was cool. At first, I felt fine and got along with them, but then my grades dropped, and my behavior was inappropriate. I smoked and drank at their houses, and I went to the bars with them. However, I still trued to listen to my parents. What made me keep listening to their teaching? The answer is their hope.

What made me keep listening to their teaching

I always know by my heart that I am parents’ hope. Thus I do not want to disappoint them. I wanted to enter a good university, and I wanted to be “really good, not only cool.” Thus, I realized that I did not belong to that group. I stayed away from them afterward. After that I associated with good friends who concentrated on our studies and my grades improved. From that event, I realized how false friends can affect our lives.Following false friends is the easiest cause of ruin, because false friends can tale our lives in all kinds of wrong directions. For instance, if we spend time with friends who do not respect our parents, soon we will not respect our parents.

good friends who concentrated on our studies

If we spend time with friends who like gambling, roaming the streets at night, avoiding work, soon we will get used to those bad habits and habits and follow them. Buddha categorizes false friends into four major groups. False friends are described in detail in the four following chapters as four major groups. False friends are described in detail in detail in the four following chapters as four major “false friendships.” I consider those relationships as false friendships because many times we did it without knowing what we were doing and how badly it could affect others and ourselves.