How To Plant Habits into ChildrenTo Be Kind And Generous (Mai Lang Num Jai)#2Drinking alcohol.Train children to be provident towards their desire drive to use drugs and alcohol.It also includes all bad drives (abai ya mook), which cause you to lose conscious self-control and the impair-ment of decision making.Abai ya mook (bad drive) means the entrance to destruction.The grandparents said that whoever gets concerned with bad drives will lose control of decision making and make wrong decisions. For example, when we are drunk, we might be able to hit our parents until they require hospitalization or until they die.There are at least 6 kinds of bad drives.1) Drinking alcohol.2) Going out at night.3) Entertaining.4) Gambling.5) Keeping company with bad people.6) Being lazy to work.These bad drives will ruin our conscious state of mind. As a result of doing wrong things we are not ashamed to do bad and not afraid of kamma.In order to parotect children from these things, parents have to :1) Teach children the bad results concerning bad drives.2) Be good examples for the children.3) Tell them to stay away from bad friends.4) Support children to do activities that are good for their health.What are the negative effects from bad drives?1) There are 6 negative effects concerning drugs and alcohol:1.1 Wastes money that is visible.1.2 Causes fighting due to emotional loss.1.3 Causes illness.1.4 Causes loss of your good reputation and name of the family because of losing your conscious mind. You do what you are not supposed to do.1.5 Causes loss of self-control because you are no longer ashamed to do bad things. You perform sexual misconduct and you lie to everyone.1.6 Causes loss of intelligence because it will ruin your nervous system and brain cells.Going out at night.2) There are 6 negative effects from going out at night:2.1 Not taking care of yourself.2.2 Not worrying about others in the family.2.3 Not taking care of your assets and you family name.2.4 Others are apprehensive of you.2.5 Will always be blamed by others.2.6 You cause many problems continuously.3) There are 6 negative effects from continuous entertaining:3.1 Not being interested in earning money for a living.3.2 Wasting money unnecessarily.3.3 Wasting time to watch the entertainment.3.4 Being irresponsible at work.3.5 Performing sexual misconduct.3.6 Building castles in the air (Daydreaming).4) There are 6 bad results from gambling:4.1 The winner creates vanity because the one who lost loses his/her faith.4.2 The loser tries to seek revenge because s/he lost money.4.3 The loser wastes a lot of money unnecessarily.4.4 You are not trustworthy.4.5 Friends always look down on you.4.6 No good people want to marry you.Our grandparents said that the house on fire 10 times is not as bad as one loss is gambling. It is because fire will destroy only the house. We’ll remain having the land, but gambling and losing once will make you lose everything. You lose the house, the property, your fame and it will bring bankruptcy. All the assets, land, and friends will be gone from the gambler. The base personality of a gambler is one of a thief, con-artist and swindler who will rob you in any way s/he can. So the parents must teach children to beware of gamblers and they must be a good example.5) There are 6 negative effects from keeping company with bad people:5.1 Leading you to gambling.5.2 Leading you to sexual misconduct.5.3 Leading you to be a drunkard.5.4 Leading you to be a bad example to others.5.5 Leading you to cheating.5.6 Leading you to be a gangster.Gambling.All bad drives are leading children to keep company with bad people. So parents should consider and teach children to stay away from friends who always invite them to do bad things. Even if the children didn’t do anything bad, they might develop bad habits and be a victim from bad friends. If the police catch them and your children who don’t know the bad friends’ tricks, then the innocent ones may get the blame. We see this often everyday.6) There are 6 negative effects from being lazy toward working. There are two types. One type is lazy from their habits, the second type is lazy from the example of the bad people who they get involved with. The actions of the lazy working people always find the following excuses not to work:6.1 Giving excuses that it’s too cold to work and then they don’t go to work.6.2 Giving excuses that it’s too hot to work and then they don’t go to work.6.3 Giving excuses that it’s too late to work and then they don’t go to work.6.4 Giving excuses that it’s too early to work and then they don’t go to work.6.5 Giving excuses that it’s too dark to work and then they don’t go to work.6.6 Giving excuses that they’re too thirsty to work and then they don’t go to work.People who always ask to push the day back to start work tomorrow; they will always be lazy and never want to work. When they don’t work, they won’t have money.Then they will have more debts. They like to get involves with gangsters and bad people. Then they will have problems with their health. In the end if they are not thieves they will have psychiatric problems, or become suicidal. The people who can get away from these bad people must say that if they could go back in time, they would have never gotten involved with bad people.Therefore, in terms of bad behaviors such as alcohol and drugs, parents shouldn’t get involved with these bad drives in order to be good examples for children, parents should warn about the negative effects of the bad drives and teach them to be away fro friends who suggest to them to do bad things." /> " /> " /> " /> " /> " />" />" />" />" /> " />
How To Plant Habits into Children To Be Kind And Generous (Mai Lang Num Jai)#2
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